i’m definitely a member of The League of Extraordinary Shy Guys

you were made for this blogging thing.

i digg it

“…you’ve gotta put yourself out there like max did in a goofy movie.” ..lol..modi it’s so true! look what happened to max….he ended up with the girl right? This quote could be applied to all aspects of life….you need to take risks in order to get what you want whether it be a boy/girl or a job…

modi you have a great personality…so if you did take that risk and talked to the girl on the subway or the one sitting next to you at a table at BBQ’s (lol)…the worst that could happen is that you walked away knowing you had a great conversation with a stranger..

i’m all about the league of extraordinary shy guys. and look at my icon. he’s a shy guy. literally. google him. he’s from mario.

im down with what sarah said lol
just do it, like nike dog

p.s. haha u know im diggin the icon

i feel u modi! but whats the worst thing a girl can say? no? roll her eyes? giv u the evil look? u didnt call her and that coulda been the woman of ur dreams…take chances man!

oh i take chances ask all the girls on campus. yzr. some end up bad some end up great. i just like my comfort zone. more shy guy chronicles coming soon. it’s for the shy guys out there. they know what i’m talking about.

this has to be my favorite entry you’ve posted. i love the guy perspective. here’s my female perspective.i love the subway chats. there’s nothing like having a horrible horrible day– i’m talkin got to work late, left your wallet and cell phone at home, accidentally shredded some important document, got chased three blocks by a wandering pit bull kinda bad day– and having some random dude try his very hardest to make you smile. in a matter of minutes my horrible day finally has a nice story that i can share with my friends later that night about a guy on the train who didn’t take offense to the awful glare i was giving the world and decided to talk to me. anyway… in my opinion every shy guy has the potential to be a hero. all it takes is that initial smile, “hi”, or wave. no biggie if you never actually dialed that number that you received after the conversation went ever so smoothly. i think that turning around my day –and possibly yours too –is enough of an accomplishment to make you the hero.

awww who is this guy he sounds so cute lol

in total agreement with makkah.

Love this!

just a great post. period. on your way, shy guy.

First things first, in response to Whitney. Im that guy. 2nd. How do you ever expect to get the girl of your dreams if you aren’t ever in attack mode? Are you a man or a mouse? Are you just gonna sit back and watch some chump get the girl you’ve been dreaming about your whole life?You only get 3 great women in your life, I had 3 of mine before I reached my 20′s, and If I know you like I think I do, Im sure you’ve already had 1. Yup, you know who Im talkin about. How many times have you seen a nice young lady walking and she’s with some Willie Lump Lump ass dude? too many times. So step up to the plate and knock one out the park. Here’s another hit Barry Bonds. Plus girls like confidence anyways. The only that will happen is, she says NO or makes up some weak excuse and then you’re back to square one right where you started before she said NO. So you dont lose anything. You only have everything to gain.

Im in attack mode as I type this..

Whitney what up babe

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i can most def cosign that liquor courage. fully and totally relate-able. LOL I had previously coined it confidence juice early this year but of that extra “attack mode” that it causes.

This forreal has to be the most sincere post. I love this because I always wonder the same things too. I do see some fly guys on the train who I want to talk to too, but I’m shy too. Yeah and Makkah, it really does make our day when a guy gets the courage to talk to us, no not tell us we’re sexy, God bless us for our bodies, or all that grimey stuff (girls you know what I mean), but genuinely talk to us. About life maybe, or that what we are reading looks interesting, or that the t-shirt I have on is cool. It really makes a difference because we both will be thinking about the conversation for the next two days at least. But if it doesn’t happen, the guy or girl will happen to wonder what could’ve happened (or go on Craigslist to try to find that “missed connection” on the train that day). You shouldn’t have to wonder when you could just do. Don’t be shy because you will feel so much better when you do.

Rambling, man

Living in NYC (here I go again) I am all too often plagued with the desire to talk to the dime on the subway, of which there are sundry, especially on the A/C between Nostrand and Chambers in the early mornings…I swear fo’ Jesus.

Being a shy-awkward turtle myself, I’ve never been the type to approach any chick with anything other than the sincere, if anything at all, but I swear, women don’t be making it any easier. Sure I get the occasional smile, perhaps even the occasional inviting once-over, then smile, but for most chicks this seems to revert into the skeptical, “I’m not interested” stone-face. Whether a defensive mechanism to ward off all would-be lump ass mufuckas, it definitely succeeds in deterring me too. Maybe I don’t feel like putting in the work, maybe I’m just downright scurred. Still, self-second-guessing aside, I gotta say I find the cold approach weird in general.

I mean sure, other day, seen this honey on the train–and she was fyne. Just like, classic, girl, I’d write a song about you if I could play an instrument type fyne. And yeah, she was looking fly without even trying. But I was like, “where’s it going to go, I mean, really?” Crowded, elbow-to-elbow subway traffic, morning, all I had to go on was a Japanese-influenced Black panda decal against a White cotton tee. But she had the stone-face! I dunno, maybe I’m just a pussy. No, I am a pussy, ’cause she was standing next to me like the whole time. Yeah, now that I think about it, I am a pussy. What’s the worst that could have happened, right?

though we discussed this ad nauseam the other night, i will comment

It’s okay for you to talk to girls on the train, just be sincere, and keep in mind that a lot of them have probably dealt with their fair share of guys who they gave their number and they got the same shitty ass guy they expected, and then had to find an awkward way to ward off any further conversation. Maybe this is just a problem I run into, but it’s an annoying enough problem that I feel that I have the right to complain, lol.

Ahh that is soo classic. Personally I don’t care even if you have graduated out of the shy guy stage and know if you went over there and talked to her that you could bag her like some groceries….there is still the fact that if she denies you with the stone face, you gotta sit there for the rest of the train feeling like a dumbass and trying not to look at her fineness! now that is a feat you just can’t get over….but I guess it doesn’t hurt the worst she can say is No right?

*Cue Nas’ Latest Single*
I guess she must need a HERO!!! She must need a HEERO!!!!
Lol.

Shy Guys Can’t roll wit me !!

That was written with a lot of creativity and honesty, I enjoyed it. As a young women who frequents the NYC #2 and A B and C trains up and downtown, I can definitely relate to the flip side of this article…the woman’s prospective. Sometimes we spot an attractive guy on the train and in our peripheral we are waiting for that dash of attention, whether it’s just a faux discreet stare, or a smile, or even the ohh so rare verbal greeting…we love it, or at least I do…even if we don’t show it in our body language or facial expression, you have definitely made our day, and we will tell the girls about “that guy” who was tryna holla on the train. Its a cat and mouse chase, a game rather, some a pawns while others are players…we all choose our roles.

I agree with Juan, you were made to blog.

Shy guys are my FAVORITE! To be honest.
I mean yeah, usually I ‘hero’ will get my attention, will initiate conversation and will get things kicked off but.. in the long run, the shy guy is better… It’s all about the chase. Shy, to me, means it’ll take longer to totally figure him out. Kind of a mystery, something to work towards, and a lot of times, when I’m lookin for somethin real I wanna be the one to approach the guy, not vice versa.
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I definitely feel you on this and this describes me to a tee. I enjoy being in my comfort zone, and maybe too much. I rarely drink, but when I get some of that “liquor courage” whether it be from alcohol or from just being in that “I don’t give a f*ck” type mood, i’m down for whatever.

Great Post Modi.

awww, I LOVE shy guys…it’s true that they’re harder to meet but it’s definitely more worth it when it does happen.

I can dig it Modi……good to see you back on your shit (pause)

Dude!! This post is so damn true lol!! I totally feel u when u talk about that comfort zone, I need mine too!!
It’s refreshing to see a blog that’s not a promotional tool for artists or on some gossip bullshit!
Peace!!!

If a “shy guy” is still on schemer mode (and only the individual really knows this) then the kind of girl that you want will seem a distant and unattainable dream. When you are ready to step out of your comfort zone and approach those kind of women you will. I’m a woman but I’ve been told it takes practice for shy guys to get out of that mode and you may get a few (-_-)’s until a conversation can be had anywhere, with any woman and eventually it will just flow. Who says you even have to spit game off break or at all on that first meeting? Making a woman laugh is the way to go always and you will be remembered even if you don’t book her. Falling back on the shy guy role won’t be a good enough excuse one day though when you see a potential future wifey walk past who has given you the signal of eye contact and a sweet smile but she will NOT the make a move because she wants somebody who can at the very least be the aggressor in terms of talking to her with a simple “Hi”. If you miss your chance trust somebody peeped it and competition is a funny, funny thing. Shoo you may not be that shy after all if you have ever been in that position.

Good post btw.

that was an ill as comment. thank you for that.

totally a shy girl
conference room? soon!!!

yeaaah.

Shy guys are so easy to spot on the subway… but once you make that eye contact you’re pretty much set for conversation. Obviously there was something interesting you both found in each other so why not just talk??..especially if your stop isn’t for awhile. it’s just a conversation.

This is great and he brings up a great point, BUT modi is hypin yall. I’ve seen roll up shorties and get the number, invite them over, all that. The subway is risky cuz they can roll at any stop and play you.

Man I dont know if I can play the hero role. I jsut get too nervous cuz I dont wanna look stupid or them play me. I can step to her and I have it all planned out but then I cant rap to her. Maybe one day lol. Swell post brother.

and wat if there stop comes up and the conversation was going smooth? they might just leave u hangin. or the these damn ipod headphones, gotta elevate ur game or u cant play.

biggest loss ever: i was sitting on the two train and one of those dimes was across from me. we made intense eye contact several times. i even got a smile. but didnt say a word.. she transfered at franklin ave right across the platform to the 5, and stood right at the open door. i turned around for one last ditch glimpse, and sent a “i wish u didnt transfer look”, and she literally smiled and shrugged, shooting a huge “u should have said something!” my way. the doors closed and we split up forever haha

Yeah I have definitely been there before lol. Someone wants to approach you on the train but you know they really shouldn’t because they’re with their significant other or their friends. Thats so true. I would consider one of the ladies who is a “Dime on the Train” LMAO!

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