Well if you wifed her she wouldn’t be a rolla no more. But it would depend on just how many times she rolled. Some females think the way to get and keep a dude is to have sex with them. Its all where her real intention are.

But generally my first reaction would be NAW..HELL NAW

i couldn’t do it playboy. thats like going to a strip club and thinking the strippers into you. there are two different types of women. drive thru, and dine in. let me break it down.

drive thru—you get ya food quick fast and in a hurry, and thats how the relationship is, you drive up (aka meet), you place your order (aka holla), get served (aka i dont i have to explain this one) and continue. if you ask your boys, they’ll talk about the other 20 ppl who have gotten it to.

dine in—now this is a girl who you wanna take that time to know, you wanna wine and dine her, you wanna know about her dreams, family, career moves etc. you take the time to sit down and be proper cuz she is proper, if you ask your boys, they’ll co-sign and say shes a good one.

now we all like to have our dine in meals, there more intimate and passionate. but sometimes at 3am you just need to swing by and get some drive thru. now as far as taking a drive thru chick to a dine in restaurant? thats a no-no. thats like spending 30 dollars on a double whopper with cheese. ridiculous.

yeah but if rollas can settle down and convert their checkers into a mcormick and shmicks (drive thru to dine in, for you slow ones), then why not settle down?

i’m all about settling down with a girl whose cool as shit. who cares if a lotta people have smashed? matter fact, dudes are lame, and a lot of them claim to have smashed things they never got a chance to smash. also, girls tend to just have rumors floating around about them. so it’s never that bad! plus, how come dudes can rock everybody and nobody hates on them for it?! a lot of us are rollas in our own right. it’s just strange to me.

i think if you have no ego problems, then you can wife the rolla. the only time it gets iffy is if a good friend smashed it too. i don’t know if you can sleep well at night knowing that it’s possible to have a nightmare of homeboy punishing it. like that scene in “office space”. and i know you know waht i mean.

if she’s cool, she can get me. and if she’s true, she can get me.

sidenote, and completely off topic: yo, i can’t wait to hit adam’s morgan on thursday night and see all the ethiopians and eritreans.

See this is what i don’t understand dudes swear they want a freak or sexual intellectual as i like to say. And for some reason they think that she suddenly started being a freak when she got with him. Newsflash about 60% of the women you been with done been passed around the block. She did things before, and will do them again and she’s always willing and ready to learn new tricks. That takes rollin around! So would a man date a rolla, he’s probably wifed up with one now!

thats so insightful j. merks

but im gonna be real from a girl/ tiye perspective. a male roller is not quie the same as a female one. as you all know, a female roller is what i like to refer to as a smut, meanwhile a male roller is “player” (still a slut tho, but the good connotation of player overrides it). with that said, i would def try to bun up a male roller. thats the ultimate challenge. i call it the “can i make him fall for me” game and it is tricky and potentially very messy, but extremely fun nonetheless. i think thats all i have to say.

You can’t start a relationship with the premise that people change. Or that you’ll be the one to make a person change. That is setting yourself up for failure. If you want to wife one, be ready for them to sleep around on you. Which means you didn’t really wife them at all. And by ready I mean shrug it off, say oh well and keep it pushing.

why would they sleep around on you if you’ve wifed them? i don’t think that’s how it goes down. i think if you get to the point that you are prepared to wife them, it’s a new world. a relationship is different than smashing and dashing. new rules are in play. so nah, don’t be prepared for them to sleep around on you. that’s not even the issue.

also,i think blogxilla (who commented above, and runs the best blog pertaining to sex and sexual stuff ever, especially for black people, and nah i’m not hyping him, check his site out, blogxilla.com) hit that shit on the nail:

“She did things before, and will do them again and she’s always willing and ready to learn new tricks. That takes rollin around! So would a man date a rolla, he’s probably wifed up with one now!”

OH BOY! let’s get it.

Could I wife one….NO. But we could one night like a mug though. I don’t think if I knew that she was a “rolla” I could take her seriously. So unless the chick you are getting with is a virgin, you are taking a chance at her being someone’s “rolla!”

how bad is tha rolla tho? she a super bad joint? lol and did she roll on some niggas u never gonna meet in your life? or did she roll wit some niggas that u see errryday!?!?!?

so many ways to look @ this!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hell nah we dont love these hoes!

lls but nah on the real i try to stay away from the type… it aint always easy to notice’em cause they be tryna disguise their rolla ways but i can spotem pretty well round these parts up morgan… damn shame the stories i heard lls pure craziness… chooo chooo!!! if you get what im sayin… lls

No no no Modi. I’m not with you in the slightest sense on this one son. I know you do the ‘shy guy w/ a big heart’ thing, but got damn nigga.
That’s a DMV No No.
If you ain’t know she was a rolla then it makes it acceptable forgivable.
But if you KNOW, and even worse, if it’s your MANS!
HELL TO THA NAW!

No html. I meant to cross out that acceptable.

roflz
how many people does a female to be with to be considered a roller?

“thats a no-no. thats like spending 30 dollars on a double whopper with cheese. ridiculous.” wowwwwwwww! hahahaha

rollas need love too. plus: not every rollas gonna be rollin forever.

wait til you meet the right rolla… and ALL you kids will be making excuses for daaaayssssssss

oh haha and yes I’d boyf the rolla.
as long as his resume dont have no lames.

aiight this is how i feel. lets say u meet a girl. and everything’s going swell. you take her to the magic johnson theater and out to romano’s macaroni grill and all that. u start feeling her a little bit, or maybe a lot, then…BOOM. you find out she smashed your cousin. thats the risk you take every time you enter a relationship. so to answer your question modi…yes i could wife a rollin ass joint, but not if i knew ahead of time she was rollin. but ladies are experts at keepin their shit on the low, so you never know shes a rolla until she puts her skates on. ya digg??

human beings always have the potential to change because we have free will. a person who was a rolla last yr, can turn around n b celibate this yr.for that reason, i don’t think its fair to judge who a person is today by things they did in the past. somebody saying “that guy gets around” won’t stop me from making my own investigation. but if he is only DTF… i’ll have to pass.

DTF!?

but yeah, make your own investigation. key to life. don’t go off the word on the street. rollas are famous because people claimed to have rocked them, but in reality, it’s just word on the street. and you know how that gets, in this crazy world! YEAHHHH!

LMAO @ amberj
DTF….

but yeah this is a DEF no Modi. I do agree that the word on the street isn’t always reliable, but at some point, everyone will know what to really believe. Ultimately it’s up to you.

I think guys should get over the notion you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. Every fast female that I know wants nothing more than to be a girlfriend and they would slow down.

Also, who’s place is it to say who is a rolla and who is not?
As a female, I must say the guys lie about sex SO much, it’s hard to say if who they call a rolla is truly a rolla. When I was in undergrad my best friends brother and I went to the same school. I was a VIRGIN and guys would be telling him they hit, when really we stayed up all night and talked about their sick grandma or their church or something…So dudes LIE! You never really know if a girl is a rolla for real. Plus half the girls I know that really go…no one knows!

I’m very sexually conservative but I just felt the need to defend my promisious friends whom need love too!

hahaha great topic

i can see why a fella wouldn’ want to wife a rolla up, with the assumption that every guy and his cousin has already run all up in and around said rolla.

i think it’s important to note that females have the same apprehensions when it comes to “players.”

but taking about rollas of the female kind — some people have mentioned that often times females with bad reps are victims of circumstance/the rumor mill…but i think those situations are far and few in between…it’s one thing for fellas to say a female let him hit, BUT when this female is known as slick, there has to be some truth to the matter.

First reaction: HELL NO!

After thought: Maybe. It really depends on the person. If she’s someone that you really have great chemistry with and she’s down to settle down with you and not roll around anymore, then why not? From then on, just focus on a better future for the both of you. Who cares about the past? Everyone makes mistakes and everyone does things they’re not proud about. You can’t change those things if you wanted to so just look forward and move on? Progress. Handle yourself differently from this point on. Don’t let your past define you. Learn from your past. Let your current actions and your future goals speak for you.

its all situational . . . for instance at an hbcu, everybody knows everybody so you can do your homework. if the streets come back to you talking sideways about a chick you might want to fall back. then you can also tell about a person by how your situation with them initiated; if you met her thursday at the coffee joint, texted her on friday while you at the happy hour and then her friend’s dropping her off to meet you at the waffle house so ya’ll can roll back to your place . . . just dont think its her first time in the scenario. dont get me wrong either, this goes for guys too, im just a dude so im talkin about females. but there is also a time to let it go. say you’re in a new city, just starting a new job/grad school. you got a few connects and your homie is a promoter. you slide through one of his gigs and got your eye on a chick come to find out your homie knows her; they got mutual friends and some of his dudes tried to get at her but nowhere. in that situation: go for it. she may have been a rolla’ but you researching can only hurt your situation. plus a lot of dudes have wifed rollas, just be cautious of the baby momma/daddy drama that comes along with it with age.

People are always going to be attracted to what everybody else wants. And guys always wanna be the one to turn a “rolla” into a wifey. Same goes for girls, they always think they’re gonna be the one to fix up the bad guy. The truth is though, more often than not, you know they’re not gonna change. Doesn’t matter if they’re a guy or a girl, your rep and your past are hard to shake. And if you wife up a rolla, you just have to be prepared to lie to yourself and pretend like she’s not gonna cheat. When it comes down to it, you wanna wife her up because you just wanna be that guy… but that doesn’t make her wifey material. At the end of the day, games and egos aside, Id rather be with the guy who hasn’t rolled around the block and hit every girl that walks but one that was more selective with his game. After all, it’s not about the quantity, it’s about the quality. Cus you gotta ask yourself when you wife up that girl, why did she need to get with all those dudes? I would say 7/10 times the girl/guy isn’t gonna stop rollin, just means they’re gonna do it on the low. Obviously this isn’t always the case and there are definitely exceptions, but I would say on the whole, that’s the deal.

i think the fact of the matter is that you can’t hold hands with a girl and walk past people that you know have already had a go. a man’s ego can’t handle that at all, and that’s that. if you are actually cool with the people that have had a go at the girl, then it’s even worse.

so you’ll never be able to wife her and be 100% happy with it. unless your name is d’wayne carter. cuz he made a song about it. called prostitute flange. or something like that.

you can beat it forever, and care for the girl, but in the end, your ego won’t let you wife her. unless y’all moved across the country. and even then, deep down, you’d still feel some type of way.

i wish the double standard didn’t apply, but it does, and it’s unfortunate.

nicely put.

I think its impossible to wife a rolla….but its definitely a personal decision…because I feel like once a girl has put on the skates>>she is permanently in the rink.

As intelligent individuals we use past experiences and decisions to predict future actions.

If a girl was/is a rolla/jumpoff/smut….(you should logically think that some guy down the line attempted to wife and was unsuccessful thats why she is in your bed now). If the past didnt matter we wouldn’t study history but we do to avoid past mistakes.

How would you feel to be all cuddled up with “wifey” in public then receiving a txt from your boy saying …..”your hitting that 2?….##$% and #$$% ran through that….i heard it was that gud gud”

Never that…

roommate is in the process of wifing a rolla right now lol…..

i always make jokes about her past dudes i think one of these times he’s gonna snap and kill me

I think this is an interesting topic but its not quite so complex. It’s pretty simple. Girls aren’t supposed to have casual sex. “It makes guys stomachs churn”.

But at the end of the line I think that the qualities found in a good wife or girlfriend or whatever aren’t going to be based on how many dicks a girl has seen. People change, I see it happen on Oprah every day.

We look back on our past and other peoples pasts not only to avoid mistakes but to learn how to progress from them. That’s why when you believe in something, you have to be willing to make an attempt to see it out to its full potential. Hence why we do things like “vote for change”.

So if a current or reformed rolla isn’t for you thats cool. I think a lot of guys make the mistake of getting in too deep and then making an effort to point out any previous mistakes or potential flaws a girl has that they probably knew about all along. The truth is, a rolla probly isn’t trying to hear all of that. She’s probably just wondering why you’re still in her face if you have such a negative view of her.

But I think I agree that a rolla guy or girl can’t be bunned up cuz in the end nobody’s ready for it and somebody always ends up getting hurt.

matter fact, dudes are lame, and a lot of them claim to have smashed things they never got a chance to smash.

case closed.
wife the hoe, i mean, rolla

didnt get through all the posts. and didnt get to write all i wanted to say but…
@G*Two-first post…had me rolling on the ground. Almost made me change my whole entire post! LOL
@Xill.Ayers – extremely insightful

This was a brilliant and well needed post for the world wide web. The reason my heart is so dear to this post, because this is one of my life long fears…To wife a Smut. In NJ smut is a term for rolla, trick, skeeza, and the list goes on. We all know most girls have had some type of pasts. I think we can all accept that. THINKING LOGICALLY and being fair to the events of life I do understand and accept that. It would not be right to judge that person based on her actions prior to meeting me. Those actions may really not define her as a person. I say this while I am single and not in the actual position. Key words however were “thinking logically”…Now as I think, type, and put myself in the position, my overbearing pride consumes my body as the Incredible Hulk takes takes over Dr. Banner’s leading to a “$%^ NO! you cannot wife a roller”! One of my biggest fears in life is walking around with a girl that I give my heart to only to have a group of dudes down the street saying “Yo is he really holding hands with that chick?! I was just smashin her out last weekend!!”…as I walk into the store to buy Wifey of 6 months a brand new Gucci Bag, and they proceed to laugh uncontrollably.

These comments are extremely insightful into the male thought process. Does this go the other way around? Its hard to take dudes seriously when you know everyone they have slept with, but it seems like dudes can smash whomever whenever with no consequence. When a girl gets what she needs on a late night tip shes a roller. It seems backwards. Dudes are expected to to act wild and eventually settle down. Girls are supposed to use self control and keep their legs closed until the right one comes along. This doesn’t really make sense.

NO NEVER WIFE A ROLLER !! anything is possible when involving yourself with a rolla. you can catch all types of shit and then on top of that wouldn’t you want a women who has class and holds her p***y up like its royal? have a girl thats sexually open, not open her legs to anybody. its fun and way safe that way. and i’m signin offffff.

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hell nah. theres a difference between wifing a chick u suspect to be a slore (ny equivalent of rolla) and wifin a chick that u already know, hands down 100% gets it in with whoever whatever whenever. everything hip hop and my older brother have told me, which is where i learn everything about being a man, has said that is a no no.

all jokes aside, it really is a matter of pride, u wanna feel like u possess ur girl, not that ur borrowin her, that way u can give urself to her and it feels fair and even, not like ur a sucker

wifed a rolla before. not officially with her anymore but still smashing of course. i’m like going through PTSD after that relationship. never again. got my eyes on a 21 year old virgin right now. trill talk. can’t wife hoes anymore. learned a lot by doing it though.

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