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		<description>Ok, so I was just reading for the fun of it and absorbing everyone&#039;s input.  Certainly was a GREAT discussion and I was going to walk away satisfied until I read Dawun&#039;s post.

Dawun, I agree with your first paragraph.  That&#039;s where it stopped.
This may seem like a detail in the overall discussion but it&#039;s certainly an important one to me. Call it being snobby or stuck-up or whatever you want but at least in my circle of friends, it is ALL about potential.  Please give us 18-25 year-olds more credit.  Sure in high school, we all (guys and girls) fell in lust with a pretty face or two even if they showed absolutely no signs of potential in the future.  However, once you get to higher education, I think priorities change.

Potential is not just about financial stability.  A man that shows the desire to progress within a given field, also demonstrates a very sexy quality that I don&#039;t think has been mentioned yet: DRIVE.

Personally, I will pay more attention to a so-so looking dude in a good school, than the pretty boy who started working straight out of high-school (no offense to anyone).  By talking to dudes on the same educational track as me, I can be sure of a few things:

1) Spending time with him will probably not mean watching the entire line up of BET and there will be sufficient conversation to keep things interesting on a day-to-day.
2) When I have school commitments he will respect them.
3) I probably have a good idea of his background. (Note: this doesn&#039;t mean that a man who comes from poverty gets the boot. It&#039;s the exact opposite.  If you grew up poor and made it to a good school, not only do you show your personal ambition, but you also probably came from a family that supports education even above financial hardship).
4) He probably doesn&#039;t have kids.
5) He probably is friends with people I already know, or like-minded individuals.
6) When he graduates from college he is in a much better position to land a great paying job (or continue his education--Law students are the definition of sexy).
7) He&#039;ll understand me better because he&#039;ll have to have some idea of how hard I worked to get where I am.
8) He is aware that finally utilizing that potential doesn&#039;t just make him a grown man--he is laying the foundation for those important things in life, like having a STABLE family.  He isn&#039;t jumping the gun and leaving life to chance.

Now, I know I&#039;ve been typing for a while but here&#039;s a quick anecdote to put this all in perspective.  I was bartending a party on New Years Eve at a prestigious school.  I also attend a WELL KNOWN school, one that usually leads to a &quot;Damn girl, you&#039;re pretty AND hella smart&quot; type of response.  This kid comes up to talk to me with the usual &quot;hello, what&#039;s your name, miss?&quot; polite introductions.  He proceeded to ask if I went to the school the party was held in.  I said no I didn&#039;t and when he asked where I went to school I responded truthfully.  His eyes didn&#039;t pop, he didn&#039;t get excited--he simply said &quot;oh ok...where&#039;s that at?&quot;
And that conversation was over.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, so I was just reading for the fun of it and absorbing everyone&#8217;s input.  Certainly was a GREAT discussion and I was going to walk away satisfied until I read Dawun&#8217;s post.</p>
<p>Dawun, I agree with your first paragraph.  That&#8217;s where it stopped.<br />
This may seem like a detail in the overall discussion but it&#8217;s certainly an important one to me. Call it being snobby or stuck-up or whatever you want but at least in my circle of friends, it is ALL about potential.  Please give us 18-25 year-olds more credit.  Sure in high school, we all (guys and girls) fell in lust with a pretty face or two even if they showed absolutely no signs of potential in the future.  However, once you get to higher education, I think priorities change.</p>
<p>Potential is not just about financial stability.  A man that shows the desire to progress within a given field, also demonstrates a very sexy quality that I don&#8217;t think has been mentioned yet: DRIVE.</p>
<p>Personally, I will pay more attention to a so-so looking dude in a good school, than the pretty boy who started working straight out of high-school (no offense to anyone).  By talking to dudes on the same educational track as me, I can be sure of a few things:</p>
<p>1) Spending time with him will probably not mean watching the entire line up of BET and there will be sufficient conversation to keep things interesting on a day-to-day.<br />
2) When I have school commitments he will respect them.<br />
3) I probably have a good idea of his background. (Note: this doesn&#8217;t mean that a man who comes from poverty gets the boot. It&#8217;s the exact opposite.  If you grew up poor and made it to a good school, not only do you show your personal ambition, but you also probably came from a family that supports education even above financial hardship).<br />
4) He probably doesn&#8217;t have kids.<br />
5) He probably is friends with people I already know, or like-minded individuals.<br />
6) When he graduates from college he is in a much better position to land a great paying job (or continue his education&#8211;Law students are the definition of sexy).<br />
7) He&#8217;ll understand me better because he&#8217;ll have to have some idea of how hard I worked to get where I am. <img src='http://DCtoBC.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> He is aware that finally utilizing that potential doesn&#8217;t just make him a grown man&#8211;he is laying the foundation for those important things in life, like having a STABLE family.  He isn&#8217;t jumping the gun and leaving life to chance.</p>
<p>Now, I know I&#8217;ve been typing for a while but here&#8217;s a quick anecdote to put this all in perspective.  I was bartending a party on New Years Eve at a prestigious school.  I also attend a WELL KNOWN school, one that usually leads to a &#8220;Damn girl, you&#8217;re pretty AND hella smart&#8221; type of response.  This kid comes up to talk to me with the usual &#8220;hello, what&#8217;s your name, miss?&#8221; polite introductions.  He proceeded to ask if I went to the school the party was held in.  I said no I didn&#8217;t and when he asked where I went to school I responded truthfully.  His eyes didn&#8217;t pop, he didn&#8217;t get excited&#8211;he simply said &#8220;oh ok&#8230;where&#8217;s that at?&#8221;<br />
And that conversation was over.</p>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok i kno this is old and mad people replyed and even if no one reads this im still gonna throw my 2 sense in</p>
<p>like everyone else said yeah we r only gonna approach them if there is a physical attraction unless we got to kno their mind first from seein them in a play a debate or wat ever u said befor</p>
<p>but keep it real wit the girl she did the right thing turnin the dude down&#8230;i kno if its a girl that im jus meeting in the store or on the street and she looks good the only thing on my mind is damn i wanna smash that,,,thats all that was on dudes mind cuz he asked wat she doin then asked her name and bam &#8220;so wats good wit ur number&#8221; he wasnt worried bout her interior</p>
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